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Unlock the secret to greater goals π― Wednesday Win
Published about 1 year agoΒ β’Β 3 min read
How can you sustain the energy and enthusiasm of a new idea, opportunity, or project? Willpower for doing the daily work to reach a big goal is a limited resource that will fade quickly. But, there's a way to create a positive flywheel driving you towards your priority goals.
No matter how great your desire is to reach your priority goals, there's never enough willpower to do the daily work necessary. Especially after the initial, irrational enthusiasm wanes and the full scope of work reveals itself, the pressure to give up or move on to a different, imagined easier option will grow and grow.
Plus, using your willpower to accomplish your daily work will lead quickly to exhaustion, frustration, and burn out.
You need to find another way.
Willpower is a finite resource and is insufficient for doing hard, groundbreaking work every day
Our minds are wired for novelty and will seek out the promise of an easier alternative even if that's just a phantom
You need to put your mental energy into the work you do and not just in getting to the work
2. Habits are the secret
So if raw, daily willpower isn't the way, what is?
Building healthy, positive, and repeatable habits.
Habits tap into something deep into how our minds are wired that allows us to establish regular work patterns that become easier to follow than to skip.
Much like Jerry Seinfeld's writing mantra: don't break the chain. Regular practice followed on a consistent schedule becomes a self-reinforcing vehicle for doing good work. Instead of manually choosing to do the necessary work, one can simply coast into the daily flow of tackling priorities and making progress.
How long does it take to establish a consistent habit? Anywhere from one to four weeks with 21 days being a good target.
Use the early enthusiasm of a new goal to get through that initial period. As long as you remain vigilant, each day will be a bit easier to keep on track.
Establishing a consistent work habit focused on the tasks supporting your goals is the key to making sustained progress
You need to commit to get through the ramp up period and can use early optimism to start strong
Commit to at least 21 consecutive days of practice to start--this is where to spend your willpower
Every well-practiced habit supports every other habit so adding new ones also gets easier over time
Atomic Habits...build one at a time...
3. Cultivate curiosity
Why do some people seem to be able to build those powerful, positive habits while others struggle to even get started?
I've discovered the difference: curiosity.
When you look at the world around you and all of the different ways that people engage with ideas, there's limitless variation. If you approach your own life with curiosity, working through the ramp-up a new habit is not just easier, but fun.
I learned in my daily writing on LinkedIn and X/Twitter to focus on building my habits like a series of experiments. When is the best time to write? What kind of outlines should I use? When do I create images? How do I organize my backlog of ideas?
That curiosity allows me to feel fresh when I start my tasks each time. What's going to work best and how can I make it better?
Look at others whose results you want to model. What do they do consistently? Why do you think it works? Should you try that or do something different?
Curiosity is the engine that keeps habit building engaging
Learn from yourself
Observe others and try what you learn from them
Approach your work with the curiosity of an explorer seeking out treasures soon to be in reach
And I'd add, curiosity leads to discovering the best habits to adopt...
Action Summary
Achieving goals that matter requires sustained effort over time.
Major effort can only be applied when it feels normal, routine, and not an extraordinary burden. Forming good work habits concentrated on those goals is essential to success. And, curiosity is the sweetener that makes forming those new habits exciting, interesting, and a positive challenge.
Set clear goals
Break down clear tasks required to achieve those goals
Build habits based on the work to be done
Keep it fresh by treating it like a fun experiment in learning
PS. Don't forget: self-belief enables (or prevents)...
None of this will work without the proper attitude.
You must first believe you are the exact kind of person that achieves the goal you have set for yourself.
You cannot reach your goals if your self image is inconsistent with that goal.
First align your identity and then the rest will flow smoothly.
Tracy gets right to the point on how to tackle the most important work as your daily routine.
What do you think? How do you build your best habits?
Reply to this email and let me know.
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To your success,
Christopher
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